The day started of with their family and friends working hard to get the school house cleaned, decorated and ready for the day and before you knew it we were hiding Meredith in the bathroom, sneaking Summer over a banister and shuffling the guests to the front steps drinks in hand to witness the merry matrimony and once they said “I Do” we headed out on a sunset adventure, a very chilly sunset adventure, good thing there love is steamy enough to keep them warm from there the celebration continued into the night complete with fried chicken, paper airplanes, sparklers, milk & cookies, “throw it up-throw it up…watch it all fall out” and so much more…see for yourself.

Congratulations love birds!!!

P.S. Big thank you to my roll dog Kika for roadtripping with me
P.P.S. Thank you to the amazing vendors who made this all possible!
Venue: Albion Schoolhouse
Caterer: Gabe Neuhaus -707.799.6534
Musicians: Jessie- 707.508.6334
Make up: Tania G. 707.888.9384
Coordinator: Jamie Lynn the BOSS lady!707.529.7315

Fijian Traditional Wedding is called a “Tevutevu”

The word “Tevu” is to spread and tevutevu is the spreading or showcasing of gifts (western and traditional gifts), that is fine mats, masi, pillows, blankets, kitchen wear etc and the dowries: whale’s teeth, pigs, root crops etc…that each respective side of the family present to show how dear their daughter or son is.

* Arrived at Phi’sl, we had our designated canopy to gather and prepare at….So all the gifts (in black garage bags by now) were separated, the ones for Matha, that gets to be show cased in the  in laws home, and the ones that were given to the tribe/extended family (2nd part of the ceremony).
*The gifts were divided into two, one set is for the couple, those are the ones that were spread in Phil’s living room, and the 2nd set of gifts were for the extended family. These were the gifts that were presented in the outside canopy (during my 2nd traditional dressing).

I was dressed twice on Friday, Nov 15th…. 1st was in Tongan fine mats decorated in feathers, in which I was honoring  my late great grand mother, my mom’s grand mother who was Tongan.
So entering my husband’s family home for the 1st time is one of the most important part of a traditional fijian wedding, & dressing up in traditional costume is an honor, so this is an event that each side of the family prepare for, for months, sometimes years, as it takes time to make the traditional mats and prepare for everything.

2nd dressing: dressed in traditional Fijian “Kuta”:….for both traditional outfits in which I was presented to the in laws, I get to be undressed afterwards by one of the in laws family (mostly by an aunt) and who ever gets to undress me, gets to keep my outfits or sometimes it gets to be shared by the extended family at the end of the day with the rest of the gifts.

Whales teeth which are called “Tabua” are the most valuable dowry in the tradition of the Fiji Islands. So they are used to ask for a hand in marriage, or when there is a new born or during a funeral.
There were a number of Tabua exchanged at the wedding, the very 1st one, was a presentation that we have arrived .

When I entered Phil’s home, I had one hanging from my wrist. That Tabua is a statement of endearment from my parents as I enter my in laws home, it’s almost like as if they do not want me entering my in laws home empty handed

As I stood there in the house, another tabua got presented on behalf of my family by an uncle to Phil’s family, that I have now stepped in to my new family’s home and there I stood on what my mother had prepared for me (the fine mats etc)….than I got undressed by Phil’s aunt & her daughter (Aunty Merewai & Veniana)…Merewai is Phil’s dad’s oldest sister.

2nd dressing: is the give away…in Fijian ” Nai Soli” …soli means to give.
this is usually an emotional part of the ceremonies as this is when the uncles and grand uncles who present my tabua give their blessings and thank my parents for raising me and now they give me over to my new family. When Phil’s uncles who receive the tabua from my uncles get to speak, they would  also thank my parents,  gave us their blessings on behalf of the tribe and immediate family.
The gifts that are presented at this ceremony are for the extended family, as they are the ones who come from a far (different villages and islands) to help, they usually bring root crops and fish and most of the manual labor that comes with making sure the wedding is a success.

Phil got dressed in traditional costume to be presented to me and my family….the tabua that was presented from Phil and his family was to reassure my family that they have raised a well groomed son who is willing to take care of me and my family for the rest of his life, we have now become one family…..Any future deaths, births or any family responsibility, he is now part of it too.
The live pig in front of the house was part of the dowry as well and that was mentioned in the exchange of words when Phil’s tabua were presented, together with the yellow gallons of kerosene and the mats, pillows etc… were all part of the gift and dowry that was offered to my family in appreciation of his new bride

Than off to lunch at Central Cuisine in Suva with the detour to Novotel…that shot was very much needed after a long morning lol….(in a traditional Fijian wedding, the man’s family get to throw a feast to feed the new bride and the party :)….anyways…thank you for being apart of that detour

Mr and Mrs Phil. Korologa

For more, see http://173.255.253.231/chloejackman.com/public/filimoni-maca-fijian-celebration-part-1-siga-ni-sosoi-yau-fiji/.

I need to give a HUGE thank you to the love of my life…you know him as Boobah, for being a fabulous 2nd shooter for this breathtaking celebration! 

This is one of the many traditions we had the fabulous opportunity to take part in, and it is exactly what it says it is: a day with your family collecting the gifts from your loved ones who travel from afar to celebrate, drinking kava (the roots of the plant are used to produce a drink with sedative and anesthetic properties), re-uniting and enjoying a day of  story telling, laughter, eating, and bonding.

The day begins early (around 6am), when the men and boys gather in the lush green area behind the house to begin the Lovo (a way to cook food in the ground with stones, coal, wood, palm leaves, and tarps).  You will notice there is a cute pig in a few images below… let me just say this: there used to be two.  In the Lovo, the pig is cut into large pieces (legs, head, split torso) and wrapped in palm leaves, along with whole chickens and lots of Taro and Cassava root, to be cooked along side the pork.  They prep it all, put it in the Lovo, and begin the drinking of the Kava.  Meanwhile, the ladies are in the kitchen preparing massive amounts of traditional food that will be served as well.  They too will spend hours together chit chatting, laughing, prepping, and welcoming the family and friends as they arrive with the gifts and join in where they are needed.

Once the ladies are done with their portion of the prep work, they move into the living to examine the mats.

The mats are like gold to Fijians (at least this is what we were told several times by the locals): they use them for everything and special ones are made for the wedding celebration.  They are more detailed, colorful and ornate and often there are a few with the family name of the Bride and the Groom.  So after the ladies have done their portion of the food preparation, it’s time to organize the mats, decide what order they will be laid out in, and which ones will be kept and which ones will be given as gifts.

(I also want to add that the Bride and Groom are separate for most of this ceremony, each with their own families for the last time as single people, for the next day is the BIG celebration.)

So we ate, drank, watched the traditions take place, and began to mentally prepare ourselves for the celebration that would follow the next day.  AMAZING.

To view more from this beautiful wedding, visit: http://173.255.253.231/chloejackman.com/public/mr-and-mrs-phil-korologas-tevutevu-traditional-fijian-wedding-fiji/.

Thank you to amazing Second shooter Matthew Gillooley

Location:  Sayulita, Mexico

Venue: Casa Milagros

Cake: Beth (mom) Marney

Make-up: Audrey (Baby Sis)

Hair: Sarah Neal (Cousin)

Band: Jazz Mafia

Engagement Ring: Grandma’s heirloom

Wedding Rings: Yes Duffy